Are Relationships Materialistic

While reading to one of the email,  i got from one of my follower saying that, Are Relationships Materialistic?
And i still find it hard to answer, please do tell me  what should i say?

Here is my point of view to this question:

To some extent it is true, because people around us, makes us believe that the relationships are materialistic. But we cannot held responsible them completely for that, they could have done this because they were stuck in some situation or circumstances made them to do so.

There is one great example of your mom you can take,when your were little kid, and used to whisper on the bed, your mom always put your on the dry side of the bed, and herself slept on the wet side of the bed. And when she heard you crying for something, she leaves behind all her important work to make you feel happy.

What makes us feel like Relationships are Materialistic, when we look for materialistic things around us, which can be bought with money, or a person can buy that for us. So these things are Materialistic (maya) not the relationships.

All this illusion is created by mind.You might think i am a CrazyEgg. What mind has to do with all this? let me tell you that, soul has nothing to do with this world, because that is the part of that almighty and has to merge with that. So mind demand for the things, which are really are Materialistic, and when we does not get these things, we start blaming others. I must say expectations are the main cause of dissatisfaction, and it leads to hatred, which makes us believe that Relationships are Materialistic.